Life Along the Shore

The Marion Natural History Museum’s Life Along the Shore program enjoyed learning a little something about the crabs that inhabit the Marion shoreline during the July 2013 session. Photos courtesy of Elizabeth Leidhold

House to Be Moved on Delano Road

A house dating to 1690 at 370 Delano Road will be moved to another location on the same property. Owners Thomas and Susan Dexter presented their plans to the Commission and said that the dwelling would be moved from 370 Delano Road to 366 Delano Road onto a new foundation south of the old dwelling. A 14-by-20-foot addition and a deck between the existing dwelling and the moved dwelling will be built.

In other business, the Commission took under consideration a Request for Determination of Applicability to demolish and reconstruct a dwelling at 16 South Street, as well as construct a gravel driveway to access the new garage.

Next up was a discussion about a Notice of Intent for a six-acre parcel on Planting Island to landscape. The proposed work includes trimming or removal of select trees, underbrush, and ground cover, and the replacement of said vegetation as shown on the Landscape Design Plan presented to the Conservation Commission. A spirited discussion followed the presentation, and the Commission agreed to revisit the extensive property and meet again with the owners.

In committee, the group agreed to respond in favor of the Marion Zoning Board of Appeals request for comments regarding the request to slightly relocate the access road/driveway in order to eliminate the bridge entry into the proposed complex.

By Joan Hartnett-Barry

Large Turnout for Dexter Road Rebuild

The seats were filled with abutters and neighbors of Kathleen Mahoney of 40 Dexter Road, who proposed to demolish and reconstruct a four-bedroom home on the lot at the Marion Zoning Board of Appeals meeting on Thursday night. Several abutters sent letters of support for the project, while the majority of those attending the meeting spoke in opposition of it.

Mahoney was represented by David Davignon of Schneider & Associates, and presented a revision of the original plan presented at the previous Zoning Board of Appeals meeting held in June. The revised plan showed a different setback at the corner of Dexter and Wilson Roads, an intersection that neighbors said was dangerous for children in the neighborhood. “We’ve pulled the build seven feet from Dexter and 4.2 feet from Wilson,“ Davignon said, “and the driveway is now a single lane, 12 feet off the property line.”

In addition, the town bylaws allow a four-bedroom home, while the original plans showed a five-bedroom home, which was also amended in the revised plans.

“What is the height?” asked member Betsy Dunn.

“From roof peak to average grade is 32.8 feet,” Davignon replied. The home will sit above the five and a half foot base due to newly enacted National Flood Insurance Act requirements.

“This home is overwhelming for such a small lot,” Karen Molson said. “This opens the door for overbearing homes, which forces the neighborhood to lose privacy and sunlight.” The total lot size is 2,186 square feet and the proposed house would cover 31.5 percent of the lot.

“It appears scale is an issue after hearing from abutters,” Chair Eric Pierce said. The board agreed to revisit the neighborhood and take the proposal under consideration. A public hearing will be held at 8:00 pm on Aug. 8.

In other business, a public hearing was held with Baywatch Realty Trust, who presented revised plans for the 96-unit 40B project, which includes 36 single-family homes and 600 apartments located in two large buildings on the property.

The lengthy wooden bridge access (shading valuable wetlands) to and from the proposed Baywatch Realty Trust (40B) property on Route 105/Front Street in Marion was eliminated from the revised plans presented on Thursday at the Marion Zoning Board of Appeals meeting.

The presentation by Kenneth Steen, of Kenneth Steen Real Estate Inc. and Edward Gless, Existing Grade, representing Baywatch Realty Trust, shows a revised plan eliminating the bridge and presenting a new access, adjacent to The Wave Restaurant recently acquired from owner Todd Zell. The revised plans show an access point coming in and on property adjacent to the restaurant parking area, now in a wooded area. None of the existing parking of the Wave Restaurant would impacted by the project.

The other substantial change in plans, was the roadway in, out, and through the proposed development. The previous roadway varied from 22 feet to 24 feet. At issue was whether a 49 foot ladder fire truck could make its way through the complex, with the existing landscape design, as presented, in an effective and timely manner. The new design has the entire project having a 24-foot street width.

“We needed to have a full 24-foot street width and a 100-foot turning radius for fire trucks that could handle a fire in the area with this density,” said Building Inspector Scott Shippee, Building Inspector. “I’m glad to see that you’ve addressed this concern.”

The board was advised by town counsel Jon Whitten to take the proposal under advisement, rather than approve it, because the town wanted to see the document that shows that the newly purchased land is under agreement and actually purchased. A motion was made to continue the hearing to Aug. 8.

In other business, the board heard from Will Saltonstall and Ginny and Matthew Stelmach Jr. of 5 Spinnaker Ln. to allow the construction of a sunroom and garage addition. Several abutters attended and helped explain the confusion over town water service to the neighborhood. Abutters said that a water service line cuts across the Stelmach’s property and to the north side of the proposed addition. Also, an existing septic system also needed to be dealt with under the new plans. The board agreed to take it under advisement and work to get more details on exactly where the water service connections are on Spinnaker Lane.

By Joan Hartnett-Barry

Permits Top To-Do List

With nine members gathered, the Marine Advisory Committee discussed a wide range of items that impact the lawful and peaceful enjoyment of Mattapoisett’s waterways.

Also in attendance for the first time was Jill Simmons, the town’s new harbormaster, along with her predecessor, Horace Field.

George Beringer of Groton, who has had a mooring in the harbor since 1994, went to the meeting at Field’s suggestion to voice his concern about the limited number of “out-of-town” dingy permits. He said that if one isn’t able to be in the area on the evening of January 1 each year, you’d miss the January 2 rush to secure one of the five permits issued each year.

There ensued numerous suggestions brought forward by the committee members, but most were either too far from Berginer’s mooring location or required a resident parking permit, which Beringer can not obtain.

Field concurred that there is a line on January 2 for one of the precious permits and that it had always been this way. But it was also pointed out that since increasing the number of moorings in the harbor this important matter of non-resident dingy permits had not increased along with them.

Member Carlos DeSousa made a motion to review this issue along with all rules and regulations and to have the entire document completed and ready for implementation by late October. This was seconded.

In the meantime, Beringer will work with Field to find an accommodation once a site is agreed upon for his dingy and the safety of his motor vehicle during his overnight stays in the harbor.

Next, member Walter Reid gave his subcommittee report on what other towns in the area are charging for various marine activity fees. This matter has been discussed during previous monthly meetings in an effort to bring the Board of Selectmen reasonable increase suggestions. Reid recently spoke to the Fairhaven Harbormaster and learned that this town wished to keep costs low for residents so that the average family would not be priced out of enjoying the water. For instance, they do not have mooring fees but do charge residents $1 per foot as a waterways usage fee and $4 per foot for nonresidents using their resource for more than 14 days per year. Fairhaven does have an active commercial fishing fleet, which helps to subsidize the town’s financial needs for water-related budget items. Several more towns still need to be polled before the subcommittee will be prepared with their complete report and recommendations.

Regarding infrastructure work, Field said that electrical work had begun at the piers but is scaled back due to only receiving $100,000 during Town Meeting – about a $30,000 shortfall from his estimated needs for this project. Work on the pilings has not begun yet but will soon he said.

Field also shared that the two interns from Mass Maritime Academy were working out well and that he had hired Wayne Ferreira as part-time assistant harbormaster, which is helping with the long days and weekend workload during the busy summer season.

Finally, the committee discussed the need for clearer markers in the harbor for the recreational area, which would help with safety and clarity for those wishing to water ski and participate in other higher speed water activities. And the need for more “no wake” signage in those areas currently deemed so. Early morning boaters are moving through the no wake area near the recreational area too fast, which is unacceptable under the current rules.

The next meeting is Aug. 29 at 7:00 pm.

By Marilou Newell

Marion COA News

The annual Senior Citizens Chicken BBQ & Raffle by the Marion Social Club will be held on August 18. Doors open at 12:00 pm, with dinner served at 1:00 pm. Registration deadline is Monday, August 12, at 12:00 pm. Tickets are 50 cents and may be purchased at the COA office. Marion seniors may register one guest. Transportation may be provided. Meals will be delivered for homebound residents. No takeout meals are allowed.

YMCA in Wareham: Tuesday and Thursday – pick-up at 10:00 am and return at 12:30 pm. Scholarships are available.

Step & Stretch: Tuesday and Thursday, 1:00-2:00 pm at the Rochester COA. Transportation provided.

Senior Stretch: Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 9:30-10:30 am at First Congregational Church Fellowship Hall. Sponsored by Friends of Marion Visiting Nurse. 10-week sessions are $45. Try once for free. Sign up for one, two or three days.

Low-Impact Aerobics: Mondays and Fridays at Atlantis Drive Facility from 9:00-10:00 am, $4.

Public Health Nurse: Nurse is available for health consultation, blood pressure and glucose monitoring, wound assessment and routine adult vaccinations on Mondays at Town Hall from 9:30-11:30 am. The nurse is available by appointment Tuesday-Friday.

Meals on Wheels: Delivered weekly to homebound elders.

Podiatry Clinic: Next clinic is August 19. Call for appointment.

Social Day Program: Monday-Friday to the Fairhaven Social Day Program. Pick-up begins at 7:45 am and return at 2:30 pm.

Medical Equipment: Walkers, bath seats, commodes, etc. Free loan.

Friendship Table: Free meal at St. Gabriel’s Church in Marion, first and third Thursday at the Congregational Church Community Center at 5:00 pm.

SHINE Counselor (Serving Health Information Needs of Elders): Health insurance questions answered. Appointments are needed. Call the COA.

Upcoming trips: August 12, Providence Place Mall; September 23, Isaacs in Plymouth; October 30, Fuller Museum in Brockton. Call the office for more details and to reserve a spot on the van.

The Council on Aging has free tickets to the closed dress rehearsal for the upcoming production of Irvin Berlin Revue at ORR on Wednesday, July 31, at 7:30 pm. Please bring a canned good to be donated to a local food pantry. This show will feature alumni, along with current students.

Friends of Marion COA Makes First Donation

            The Friends of Marion COA has made its first donation to the Marion Council on Aging. The Friends is a newly formed charitable organization whose purpose is to raise money in order to help with the funding of various projects that support and enhance the operation of the Marion Council on Aging. At a regularly scheduled meeting of the COA on July 15, the Friends announced that they would be presenting the COA with a check for $2,500 to be used initially to expand the distribution of the Council’s monthly newsletter.

The Friends was formed as a 501(c)(3) in the fall of 2012 with the support of over 50 Charter members. We conducted the first annual membership drive in May with a distribution of brochures to every household in the town of Marion. Using some of the proceeds from these two efforts, the Friends’ Board of Directors voted to donate $2,500 to support the COA’s efforts to increase the availability of information about its programs and services to those aged 60 to 65; this part of our population does not currently receive the monthly COA newsletter. Susan Schwager, the Director of the Marion Council on Aging, had presented this project to the Friends as a priority need.

In addition to supporting the COA financially, the Friends continues to research activities that will enhance the quality of life in Marion for all its citizens, including the development of a community calendar and long-range planning for a community center. Our first annual Membership Meeting will be held on Wednesday, October 9, at 5:00 pm at the Music Hall.

For additional information about the Friends of Marion COA and a membership application, please log on to www.fmcoa.org, or contact Susan Wood, President, at 508-748-6725.

Super Duper Summer Fair

The First Congregational Church of Marion held their Super Duper Summer Fair on Saturday drawing dozens of fans who enjoyed the food, music and fun. Photos by Felix Perez.

 

 

SHS and Marion COA Movie Series

The public is invited to enjoy Sippican Historical Society and Marion Council on Aging’s summertime collaboration: Merchant Ivory Matinees. Beginning on Wednesday, July 31 and continuing over the following three weeks, the organizations will present a selection of Merchant Ivory’s most popular films.

The selection for July 31 is The Bostonians. Based on Henry James’ classic novel, the post-Civil War drama stars Christopher Reeve and Vanessa Redgrave as a Southern lawyer and his Bostonian aunt, both struggling for the attention and affection of a spirited young suffragette, played by Madeline Potter. For her stellar performance, Vanessa Redgrave received 1984 Golden Globe and Academy Award nominations for Best Actress. The film’s running time is 122 minutes.

August 7 will feature A Room with a View. This 1986 film adaptation of E.M. Forster’s novel features Maggie Smith, Helena Bonham Carter, Julian Sands and Daniel Day-Lewis in a tale of romance, repression, manners and mores. The film received eight Academy Award nominations, winning Oscars for Best Adapted Screenplay, Best Art Direction and Best Costume Design. The running time for the film is 117 minutes.

Howard’s End is August 14’s film selection. Starring Anthony Hopkins, Emma Thompson, Helena Bonham Carter and Vanessa Redgrave, this 1992 adaptation of another Forster novel explores class divisions in Edwardian England. Howard’s End received the Special 45th Anniversary Prize at the 1992 Cannes Film Festival. In 1993, the film received nine Academy Award nominations, including Best Picture and Best Director. The film’s running time is 143 minutes.

Finally, on August 21, the series will close with the presentation of The Remains of the Day, a tale of emotional deprivation and misguided loyalty. Like Howard’s End, it stars Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson. Hugh Grant and Christopher Reeve are also featured. The film was nominated for eight Academy Awards, and was praised as: “Smart, elegant, and blessed with impeccable performances from Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson.” Running time for the film is 134 minutes.

Merchant Ivory Matinees will be held in the front room of the Marion Music Hall (164 Front Street) and offered free of charge to the public. Films begin at 11:00 am, and attendees are encouraged to bring a brown bag lunch to enjoy during the presentation. For more information, contact the SHS at 508-748-1116.

Natural History Museum Summer Update

After more than two decades of natural history programming, the Marion Natural History Museum’s Summer Program is one of the most well-known and well-regarded in the South Coast. Children from across the country visit us each summer and participate in the program. The programs are designed to be small groups, and registration is limited to 15 children per session. There are still a few openings in Life Along the Shore and Coastal Explorations for the August session. Come join us for some fun in the sun!

Life Along the Shore (For grades entering 1-2): During this program, we visit the shoreline and explore the plants and animals that live in our area’s many coastal habitats. With the use of games, journals and introductory science techniques, this will be a wonderful first look at life in our coastal environment.

Coastal Explorations I (For grades entering 3-4): This program will feature exploration of our rocky intertidal shorelines, salt marshes, estuaries as well as freshwater riverbanks, swamps, ponds and bogs to take a close-up look at the birds, amphibians, fish and invertebrates that make these areas so special.

Coastal Explorations II (For grades entering 5-7): During our Coastal Explorations II program, we will further enjoy the unique habitats Marion has to offer including several field trips to expand our knowledge of our coastal and freshwater ecosystems.

Times for all programs: 9:00 am-12:00 pm, Monday-Friday; next session: August 5-16; cost for each program: $200/members, $250/nonmembers. Please register by printing the registration form at www.marionmuseum.org and submitting with payment. Programs fill on a first-come, first-served basis, so make sure to register early!

And on the Seventh Day

For nearly everyone, there is one day of the week that is special, set aside for activities other than work, school and demands from the outside world. As thinking beings whose lives are often dictated by the demands of industry and commerce, not to mention child and eldercare, we need that space to just be. Our brains need time to depressurize and regroup. We need the time to enjoy our family and/or attend church. Although we live in a multicultural country whose very foundation is set on freedom of religious choice, Sunday, for the majority, is that day.

Historically for Christians, Sunday was that sacred day for prayer, reflection, being together as a family over a large meal and calling on friends. It remained that way until the mid-1960s, when family structures started to change, women began working outside the home in greater numbers, and Blue Laws were being repealed slowly. With the likelihood that one or both heads of households would now be out of the home on Sundays, it may have lost its once clearly defined meaning. Or did it? Seek and ye shall find.

The Sundays of my youth were spent at a Methodist Church. I was baptized in the Marion Methodist Church (now a private residence) and later attended Sunday school classes in the Onset Methodist Church (now closed). My history with Sunday is deeply marked by the stories of the Bible being memorized, while I wore little white gloves, hats with thin elastic chin straps, and heard coins tinkling into the collection basket. I loved the Bible stories and Psalms. So, when I think of the Sundays of my youth, they are synonymous with going to church and studying the Bible.

And then there were the Sunday visits. About once a month, a relative would come visiting on Sunday afternoons. I loved the visits from cousin Mildred, a second cousin at least five decades older than me. She always wore a hat and gloves, shirtwaist dresses and sweaters held together by a sweater clip. Remember those? In her vast purse, she’d fish out hard candies. She kept a linen handkerchief stuffed up her sleeve. Her fragrance was English lavender talcum powder and mothballs. I loved her and would sit beside her on the sofa admiring her bangle bracelets and rhinestone rings. Mildred remained a favorite relative of mine until her passing at age 99. Whenever I think of Sundays, I think of Mildred, cups of tea, Fig Newton cookies and the King James Bible.

It has been many years since going to church, visiting with relatives and eating a huge Sunday dinner was a routine part of my week. I wondered if Sundays had changed for others, from traditional church attendance and family visits to something else. After all, hasn’t everything changed? I reached out to others to plume the depths of their experience and this is what I found.

From K. Livery of greater Chicago: “I looked forward so much to Sundays. It was the one day different from the others. We relaxed, my mom wasn’t stressed by the clock, Dad was present at least for a while, and for me, there was a wonderful break from school and Mrs. Richter’s 100 math problems every weeknight.

“During the week, my parents’ role in 60s suburban life was in full-bloom with parochial school for me, lots of clubs and volunteering, and a household with three very tired wage earners, two of whom were over 40 and not in the mood for anything that looked at them funny or rocked the boat. Those were the days when you could go out for a drive and stop in and see friends or family completely unannounced, and no one thought you were rude.

“Childhood Sundays meant church and Sunday school. Lutherans, by the way, never do anything in less than 55 minutes at a whack, so by the time all was said and done, almost 2.5 hours of the day were spent behaving under more parochial scrutiny, which was not fun. But once that part of the day was done, I loved to go back home and read the funny papers. For my mom, there was a big Sunday dinner to fix, and for my dad, watching the game on TV or cutting the grass.

“There are many years between my brother and I, but we have always been close. And, he made Sunday evenings, especially in the summer, just wonderful. I was a pampered little sister. On so many of those hot, humid southern Illinois evenings, Barry would take me out for Dairy Queen or to the A&W Root Beer Drive-In.

“Today, Sundays still mean church (my husband plays guitar in the contemporary service), lunch at home (although it’s a modest fare), and trying to decide what we have the energy to do.”

From the French quarter of New Bedford, one senior citizen recalls: “On Sundays, if it wasn’t summer, which we spent at our camp, and if my father wasn’t working, he’d spend the day taking us someplace as a family, or he’d play baseball or catch with us, or maybe we’d just take a ride. A big treat was once or twice a year going to a Red Sox game.”

Church?

“Oh, we went to church – that was a given.”

Dinner? “Big Sunday dinners were a given, too!”

Another senior citizen laughed and shared: “Sundays? Well, I spent the morning waiting for my Gentile buddies to come home from church so we could play ball!”

Joe A. remembered: “Church on Sunday morning and the Sunday dinner at noon … in the afternoon, we would get a visit from my great Aunt Blanche and her sister, my nana. They always brought a homemade cake or cookies … us kids so looked forward to that. Now we are empty nesters and attend church on Saturdays so we sleep in or just relax with coffee. Life is different now.”

From Fairhaven, Sue H. said, “As a full-time worker, I have learned to make myself treasure every minute of Saturday and Sunday … a second cup of coffee especially on Sundays … when our boys were young, we did lots of sporting events, but now we enjoy sitting out on our back deck together.”

From a rich tapestry of domestic life, Richard S. paints the following story: “Sunday mornings of my childhood began with 8:30 am Mass with the entire family, followed by either visiting each of my grandparents’ houses for pastries and coffee, or, during the good weather, a cookout in their backyards. Sometimes, we’d go for a drive to the countryside or along the coast, stopping along the way at a clam shack. In the fall, it was apple picking, or a day a Rocky Point Park or Lincoln Park or Crescent Park.

“Now that I’m older, it’s my turn to pick up the mantle hosting Sunday dinners here when my kids don’t have events I need to take them too. Still, we try to keep the traditions going, but it is harder and harder with the current pace of life. Definitely not like days past, which were much more relaxed and leisurely. I miss those days.”

For many families, one or both of the breadwinners might be working. Two teenage girls told me: “Mom works, and Dad does his gardening, so I either sleep till noon or read, visit with friends … we go to church as a family on Saturday.

And the other said; “My mom usually works, too, and sometimes Dad also, but most of the time Dad and I sing in church together … then I’ll do homework or help clean up the house and wait for Mom to come home.”

Sometimes we have to go where a family member is located in order to keep the familial ties strong. Such is the case for those visiting nursing homes. Go to any parking lot of any nursing home anywhere and you’ll find cars filled with families heading inside to visit a cloistered loved one on Sunday. These multigenerational knots of people find their way to the bedside or wheelchair of grandmothers, grandfathers, mothers, fathers or other relatives. Visiting a nursing home is a very hard duty, for sure. But so strong is the drive to spend at least part of their Sunday with the missing family member that the sacrifice is made.

Sundays have most likely changed for the majority of us. Yet, as our business norms, social norms and family structures have changed, it seems to me that one thing has remained – Sundays are for being with family as much as possible. As I look around our village, I see families spending afternoons walking, pushing the kids on swings, eating ice cream, picnicking or biking together. Even in retail environments like a mall, one finds whole families together. In spite of some of the family members working or the activities of the day being more mundane than going to a park, Sunday still punctuates our lives with an opportunity to reconnect, re-energize, and try to strike some balance to an otherwise non-stop contemporary life, even if only for a few precious hours. Peace out!

By Marilou Newell

Quakers Plan Two Sales

Mattapoisett Friends Meeting will hold two sales in the next three months to raise much-needed funds for the restoration of the interior of the historic 1827 Quaker Meeting House on Route 6 (103 Marion Road).

Vendors for either sale, planned for August 17 and October 12, can reserve space by paying in advance. Limited inside space with an 8-by 4-foot table and chairs is available for $20. Outside space for one vehicle is $10.

Sale hours are 8:30 am-12:00 pm each day. Setup for inside space is 6:00-9:00 pm the Friday night before. Setup for inside and outside space begins at 7:00 am the day of the sale.

The church welcomes cash contributions in any amount to help fund this project. They may be sent to the meeting at P.O. Box 795, Mattapoisett, MA, 02739. Potential sale items for the church tables (please no large items or electronics) can be vetted by calling Brad Hathaway at 508-758-3579 for pick-up.